Say hello to Pain

Pain comes in so many forms:






– fear



To suffer pain in life is the way of life. Pain causes us to hurt, to struggle, to experience pain leads us onto growing up, to learn from the pain is a process developing, and if we can’t take the pain anymore, it ends, we end. It’s over.

Kenji Miyazawa:

“We must embrace pain, and burn it as fuel for our journey”

It will not always be like this. Life is one of the longest things around, so you wont be stuck in pain forever. At times it will feel like you would but remember change will always exist, for better or for worse, which means that things will change and you will not be stuck in pain forever.

The world has to have elements that can work towards balance, where there is:

pleasure there is pain.

good there is bad.

right there is wrong

good there is evil.

happiness there is sadness.

gain there is lost

however there will never fully be a equilibrium between it because if you think about it, if there was a equilibrium things will no longer work there will not be a purpose. If you look at a seasaw, if it was balanced then it will no longer go up and down and there will be no point for it. So I guess what I’m trying to say and come to terms with is that we are conditioned to want perfection and full equilibrium but its never really truly going to be possible in this life…………………..

Without pain we don’t learn, we don’t experience and we won’t gain. If we try to avoid pain in life, we are 1) not actually living and 2) we can never fully avoid pain, it just gets suppressed and in the end it would be even more painful. So say hello to pain




4 Responses to “Say hello to Pain”

  1. Such an interesting post…pain is a common element amoung us all…how it changes us depends on how we approach it.

  2. vixstar1314 Says:

    thanks for your comment, much appreciated
    yes I totally agree, I think the fundamental way in which we decide on how to deal/perceive with things, ultimately changes it all and is the key factor..

  3. Hmm it looks like your site ate my first comment
    (it was extremely long) so I guess I’ll just sum it up what I submitted and say, I’m thoroughly enjoying your blog.
    I as well am an aspiring blog writer but I’m still new to everything. Do you have any tips and hints for beginner blog writers? I’d definitely appreciate it.

  4. vixstar1314 Says:

    @Haarausfall Thanks for leaving a comment and sorry something went wrong when you tried to comment first time round.
    Tips and hint – well I ain’t an expert but I would say keep writing regular posts, request for readers to leave comments so you can get more suggestions from your audience. Write topis you are passionate about, and have fun sharing your ideas and that of others.

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